My life used to be completely off the bat. I hadn’t figured it out, and that chaos flooded into every aspect of life. My life used to be completely off the bat. I had not realized it, and that chaos flooded into every aspect of my life, including my dating life. Now that I’ve finally realized everything else, there’s just one more thing I need love.
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My career is on the right track.
I went to school, paid my dues, and finally, I have a job that I love. I’m happy with my work life, and I know exactly where I want my career to go. I will not lose focus because my job is my passion. I know that no man could sweep and take away all this hard work. Once upon a time, work was working for me, but now I’ve found that doing something I love is what a happy business is all about.
I have put my physical health first.
When I was a child, I never cared about my health. All I ate was junk food, and exercise was my worst enemy. I was skinny (God bless fast metabolism), so I thought I was okay. Still, I finally realized that being skinny and being healthy are two very different things. I have found a healthy diet and regular exercise routine. I finally feel good inside and out. I’m happy with how I look and feel, and that happiness does not depend on what men think. That way, I know I’m ready to let someone in without obsessing over their opinion of me. I now know that my opinion matters more.
I know I have friends who will be there for me no matter what.
Falling in love will always carry the risk of a heartbeat, but I know I can survive it. Why am I so sure? Because I have amazing friends, I know I will never lose. No boy could ever come between us, and no man could leave me so shattered that my friends could not pick up the pieces. I used to be the girl who made her relationship all her life, but now I’m finally the girl who knows how to make her friends a priority.
I am finally spiritually ready for love.
I have felt for myself. My attempts to find love before was that I felt I needed love from a man because I never really learned to love myself. I was unhappy and thought that finding “The One” would magically solve all my problems – now I know better. I love myself and my life, and now that I do, I know how to love someone right too.
I am a strong and independent woman.
I proved to myself that I could live everything on my own. I do not need a man or anyone else to rely on, which is the best feeling in the world. I have finally learned to trust myself and pick myself up again every time I fall. I have the strength to deal with a real relationship right now, and even when I find love, I know I will never stop being independent.
I know exactly what I want out of life.
I have been doing a lot of soul searching, and I finally know what I want. I have a bucket list that includes travel, career, friendship, family, and finally finding the person of my dreams. Now that I know what I want, I can finally look for a man who also wants these same things. I used to live my life about whatever the guy wanted, but now I know that I also want to matter.
I finally have time for a real relationship.
Since I finally get to see myself together, I can give myself time for a boy. Before my life spread, it ran and went a million miles per minute in all directions. Right now, I’m focused, and it will allow me to spend serious time in a serious relationship. Everything else is in order, and that means I finally have time to figure out my love life too.
I want to know what it is like to love a person wholeheartedly.
I want to experience all aspects of life, including love. I know my life mission is not to find a man, but that does not mean that falling in love cannot be a part of my dreams. I’ve worked hard to get to where I am and to realize the rest of my life, but there’s one piece in the puzzle. I want to know what true love feels like and what it’s like to love someone forever.
I want a man, but I do not need one.
Part of realizing the rest of my life realized that I did not need a man to make me happy. I do not need a man to rejoice now. Sure, love is another amazing life goal I want to check out on the list, but if it never happens to me, I’ll be fine. I’m happy for myself and myself; being truly happy is what life is really about.
I’m ready to make up with someone.
I have lived a unique life to the fullest, and now I am ready for my next adventure. I have no regrets about leaving one life. I do not feel I have missed anything. I’ve had a great year just being a young and free single girl, but now I’m ready for more. I gave myself time to realize myself, and I felt so good, but there’s one more thing I want, and that is true love.